Question 1

What is BeforeWeMeet?

Accepted Answer

It is a private way to share 10 meaningful questions with someone you are getting to know. You choose the questions, share one link, and review their answers before deciding whether to take the next step.

Question 2

Who is BeforeWeMeet for?

Accepted Answer

It is for students and people considering a serious relationship or marriage. It is not built for casual dating; it is for people who want an honest conversation before they meet or move forward.

Question 3

Do they need an account to answer?

Accepted Answer

No. Send them your private link and they can answer without creating an account. You need an account only to create questions and review the response.

Question 4

Can they change their answers after sending them?

Accepted Answer

No. Each person gets one honest response by default. This keeps the conversation real rather than turning it into something to optimise for.

Question 5

Is this private?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You choose who receives the link, and only you can review the answers. It is designed for one thoughtful conversation, not public comparison.

Question 6

Can I set a deadline?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Set an expiry date when you create your questions, or close the link from your dashboard whenever you need to.

Question 7

Do they see a score right away?

Accepted Answer

That is your call. You can show a score immediately, or keep the focus on reading each answer and talking about what it means.

Question 8

What does approving or rejecting mean?

Accepted Answer

It lets you decide what they see after you have reflected on their answers. It is a private decision point, not a public verdict on a person.

Question 9

Is it free to start?

Accepted Answer

Your first set of 10 questions is free for one person, with no card required. More private question sets are available as a one-time Pro purchase.

Question 10

Can I edit my questions after sharing the link?

Accepted Answer

No. Once you share a set of questions, it stays final so both people are responding to the exact same conversation.

Good questions. Honest answers.

A little less wondering. A little more connection.